Doing these ways, in order to Children not Exposed to Pornography

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Disclosure of information and technological sophistication, make things that related with pornography more easy accessible, no exception by children. In order for your children not exposed to pornography, then as a parent you must act and been more resolute.

According to dr. Kristiana Siste, SpKJ of the Department of Psychiatry RSCM, Jakarta, mostly exposure to pornography on children is from the Internet. Today many children who become dependence on the internet, so that they are more easily exposed to pornography and even become victims of sexual harassment.

"How to avoid it is with prevent children opening the internet in a long time without supervision," said Dr. Kristiana in a talk show on the show Woman Health Expo at Grand Sahid Hotel, Jalan Sudirman, Jakarta, and was written on Monday (03/11/2013).

In order to children could be separated from the internet thereby reducing of possibility exposure to pornography through cyberspace, following tips from Dr. Kristiana:

1. Children involved many extra-curricular activities at school
2. Do not give a mobile phone that can access the internet
3. Limiting the internet usage time
4. Familiarize children asked the teacher if there is things that foreign
5. Ask the children to avoid acquainted with people who content of its social networks which suspicious.
6. Familiarize children sharing the parents, teachers, and friends if there is a problem

"Already many cases of virtual world there are children who were kidnapped and are victims of sexual violence. So describe existence facts such as it on children in order to children more understand its danger," said Dr. Kristiana.

In the same occasion Dr. Frances Kaligis PSKJ encourage in order to children or teens dare to say no if someone invite to perform acts that leads to sex. Use reasons that clear and firm so that people who invite will stop leads to sex.

"If experiencing sexual violence or harassment, speak with adult who can believed. Do not try to save own because it will not resolve the problem," said the doctor who was familiarly called Dr. Chika's. She added violence or sexual harassment can be done by anyone. Even the people closest which is known can do it. It can not be allowed because it can interfere growth and development.

"It would have an impact on the formation of self-confidence, personality formation, and stable emotions," said Dr. Chika. According to him, economic factors becomes the risk factors of violence and sexual harassment. However economic factors is not the only causes.

"In various literature called the economics become risk factors. Pressure, stress, triggers someone who actually already have psychological problems so determined to do it," said Dr. Chika.