9 Things You Need to Know about Sex

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Couples who have been married for several years may feel already know true what sex was, and the various aspects that accompany it. But make no mistake, it is usually the more someone claims to know everything, in fact and actually, quite the opposite.

No need to bother, Alicia Stanton, a specialist in obstetrics / gynecology and author of "Hormone Harmony" and has specialized in treating male and female hormonal imbalances has been gather 9 myths about sex, at once answered the facts about these myths are, as is the case quoted from Timesofindia.

The following is the ninth myths:

Myth # 1: Interest in towards sex will diminish over onset of menopause

In fact many women are able to maintain hormonal balance and remain interested to sex though has been experiencing menopause. Even pregnancy and menstruation no longer obstacle during spontaneity still owned the second pair.

Not only that, people who have experienced menopause usually much more confident and know exactly what they want, so the activity making love could be much better than before.

Myth # 2: The only hormone that important for libido is testosterone

Whereas, although testosterone is indeed plays an important role to show libido and sexual function good for a man and women, there are also other hormones that are is needed therefor namely: estrogen, primarily to cause sexual arousal for men and women. So also with cortisol in high levels.

Myth # 3: If you truly falling in love, sexual arousal and high libido will come with easy

In fact, in order to have a strong connection with your partner, someone needs a lot of time, energy and attention to fertilize it. Focus your attention only with your spouse and whatever is he thinks interesting should be your priority. From there you will find new ways to always connected and interested in him.

Myth # 4: If you are healthy then you will want to have sex all the time

There are various types of sexual desire or the libido levels. But the only way to know whether you have any amount of sex that 'right' is if you and your partner feel happy with the level of sexual activity that you do now. No need to bother also compare it with other people.

Myth # 5: If you fit with your partner, you do not need to say what you need

Even if you and your partner not yet ever discussing sexual matters though, it would be nice if this was the buzzword. This is very important, especially if you and your spouse enters a new phase in life such as childbirth, menopause or andropause (menopause on the men).

So when you are realize body nor your sex drive change, make sure your partner knows. Moreover, remember that communicating about various things intimate can increase your sexual experience both.

Myth # 6: The most important sex organ is the genitals

Although one body part it was very enjoyable but actually the biggest sex organ in humans is the brain. Because with the brain, you always have the ability to choose what you want to feel and think about sex and your sexuality.

Whereas, what a man or woman feel the towards himself could be an incredible aphrodisiac, especially if you are interested with yourself. It is will be contagious to the couple so that he will feel you are so attractive.

Myth # 7: If you do not have a couple, libido it is not is needed

That's really important to love yourself. So although you do not have a partner, feeling sensual and desirable will add passion on various aspects of your life. It's just that you need a lot to learn about what stimulates you and what the potential of yourself that will make a potential partner aroused.

For that, learning fun yourself is a skill that you need to have so that later you can enjoy at once can be taught on the couple to add to the splendor of your sexual activity.

Myth # 8: Only women who experience low libido

Although many low libido found in women, but in fact it this also happens in men. The reason could be so the consumption of alcohol, certain medications, stress, hormone imbalances (such as low testosterone), drug use, brain tumor, diabetes up to dangerous diseases such as cancer.

Myth # 9: The problem hormone is the only cause of low libido in women

Hormone imbalances can include low estrogen, low testosterone, hypothyroidism, and high cortisol due to stress but there are also other causes. Physical disorders such as pain in the vulva or vagina nor vaginal dryness can also increase frustration and lower libido.

The surgical procedure or illness such as cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure and arthritis, relationship problems, psychological problems (including depression), alcohol consumption, smoking and weight disorders are also one of them.

Source:  timesofindia