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Sexual intercourse will not be successful if one of the couple has a particular worries during sex. Just as men, women also have the worry similar to the performance and its performance in the bedroom.
As quoted from various sources, here are the biggest source of worries experienced by women during sex, among other things:
1. Light lamp in room, when during sex
Most women prefer to have sex in a room a little dark. Women feel embarrassed if your partner sees her clearly naked under lights left on when having sex.
Will but, according to a survey, he was eager to see their partner naked more clearly. Men are also not going to question the existence of cellulite, scars, stretch marks or scars pregnancy.
If you still do not trust myself to have sex with the room lights are lit, try to light a candle. Light dim candle can add romance in the bedroom and a little wipe your worries.
2. Vaginal odor
Many women are worry about information that states that a woman's sexual organ is the dirtiest part of the body and emit smells a bit fishy. The truth is that a healthy body even has a certain smell, including the vagina.
It is actually good, because the aroma in the form of pheromone which is a hormone that can increase sexual desire partner. Too strong vaginal odor may be caused by a fungal infection, but if you always keep the vagina, there is nothing you need to worry.
3. Throw away gas when during sex
The average woman can throw gas 14 times a day. This is normal as normal people do, including burping and had 'vaginal fart', namely the emergence of a small voice from the vagina due to the air entrapped inside the vagina during sex.
4. Not being able to satisfy couple
Just as men are concerned about their performance during sex, women have also experienced the same worries. Sometimes questions arise in your mind, whether I have done the best for her? Did he like it? and so on.
If this be the source of your anxiety when having sex, reveals what bothers you to the couple. Talk to your partner about what she likes and what is not related to the relationship in the bedroom.
5. Not able to achieve orgasm
According to sexual health experts, most women are too worry about whether he can reach orgasm or not. Although every woman wants to have an orgasm, but ironically too worried about it just may get you into trouble achieving orgasm.
Instead, try to focus on the fun and enjoyment that you get during sex. Focus on those sensations can make you forget about all the worries and can promote orgasm.
6. Negative thoughts
Women in general are often plagued by negative thoughts in the bedroom, such as thinking that he is now no longer attractive, weight increased, or thought that their partners do not want it anymore. Back on point no. 5, negative thoughts can cause anxiety and inhibit orgasm.
7. Too amused
Men do not know what kind of touch that can increase your sexual desire, so that errors in the touching parts of your body often makes you not able to help but laugh in amusement. It can actually damage the mood to make love, so avoid anything like this.
Instead, try to lead a man to touch the body parts that you like, of course with the correct technique.
8. Vaginal dryness
Vaginal dryness is also one of the reasons that cause anxiety in women when in bed. The vagina is too dry can cause pain when penetration and make sexual intercourse uncomfortable.
It can be caused due to hormonal influences or when you enter menopause. Overcome this by using a lubricant when during sex, so that both partners feel comfortable.
(various sources)
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